Saturday, July 30, 2016

Using EFT To Improve Your Relationships


Relationships begin as a matter of awareness, gravity/attraction, and desire/chemistry; but these things soon fade leaving people wondering why they got into this relationship in the first place. Understanding that newness doesn't last, and that chemistry (hormones) soon dissipates, is one of the ways to be prepared for the inevitable changes that challenge most relationships; and the Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) is another way. Here's how you can use this quick and easy-to-learn, free technique, to enhance your relationship.
EFT is a simple technique you can learn by downloading one of several free manuals available online, as well as by watching any of a number of free demonstration videos; but the technique isn't necessarily the answer to all of your problems. The key to using EFT successfully is in finding the right problem to work on. With relationship problems, most people believe the problem is with the other person unless they have guilt and shame issues, as well as relationship difficulties. The truth is that the problem isn't really a "problem;" relationship difficulties are the result of our programming and how well our relationship matches what we've been programmed to expect.
When the reality we encounter doesn't match what we want or expect to see, we feel stress; and we feel that we are missing something in our lives or relationships. In reality, nothing is missing; we simply don't know how to process parts of our life and relationship that have somehow become stuck in our experience - often due to fear, resistance, or some other uncomfortable emotion. In other words, most relationships can be dramatically improved by simply removing the obstacles or reasons that we aren't fully experiencing and releasing our life and the events in it. By using EFT, you will be better able to go with the flow and let-go of the things keeping your relationship from being the best it can be.
To improve your relationship with EFT, you must learn and use this incredibly simple technique to remove the stress and resistance you feel in and around your relationship. When you do, your relationship will dramatically improve almost immediately. Start by making a list of all the negative thoughts and beliefs you are holding onto about your relationship - include statements and feelings you may have about your own self-esteem, body image issues, fears, worries, grief, and resentment where your relationship or partner is concerned. Then simply apply the technique to each statement, one-at-a-time, until the emotional intensity you initially felt has disappeared.
Here are some statements, or beliefs, that some people clear when they begin using EFT to repair or enhance their relationships:
"I don't think this is going to work."
"I don't think anything can save my marriage."
"My marriage is going downhill fast."
"I don't know what to do about my relationship."
"Nothing can help me."
"I'll never be happy."
"I don't deserve to be happy."
"Happiness in relationships is a myth."
"My marriage has lost its spark."
"I can't get over the past."
These are just a few statements, beliefs, or "programs," you can release by simply thinking about them while applying the simple EFT tapping procedure. By tapping on specific points while repeating these limiting beliefs and ideas, your body is encouraged to release the "stuck" information and allow the return of the normal flow of information, ideas, and creativity in your life and relationships. You can probably imagine how difficult it would be to convince someone that their marriage could improve if they were holding onto beliefs about how their marriage cannot get any better. With EFT, limiting beliefs and negative self-talk are quickly and easily released - leaving you free to experience and enjoy a better, more fulfilling and rewarding relationship.
*To download your FREE, Illustrated Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) Manual, go to: http://www.ExploreExpandEvolve.com/free_download/ It only takes about 10-seconds to get your Free EFT manual and start erasing fears, resentment, stress, anxiety, grief, negative emotions, negative self-talk, phobias, and limiting beliefs that could be holding you back and limiting your life, health, and relationships.
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Wednesday, July 27, 2016

The Message For The Ages In Bill and Ted's Excellent Adventure


While Bill and Ted's Excellent Adventure movies didn't win any academy awards it did leave us with a pretty powerful message.  These two stoner dudes told us to "Be Excellent To Each Other"   It is amazing that in this silly and crazy movie that such a profound statement would be initiated.  If we could all be excellent to each other how amazing would our planet be?  You might think it is just a tag line from a movie but it is much more it is a call to action!  I want to take up this challenge and continue on with it so I encourage you all to, 

Be Excellent To Each Other



Now if you have to see the movie here are links so you can pick it up or download it.


Sunday, July 24, 2016

Rock Your Sex Life Ladies


Top 3 Ways Female Libido Boosters Can Save Your Sex Life!

Low libido and low sex drive are very common among contemporary women. The condition can be due to many reasons. Menopause, Perimenopause, stress, vaginal dryness.... Whatever the cause, low libido can have serious effects on many different levels. It can leave you frustrated and insecure, and it can strain your relationship with your partner among other things. Natural female libido enhancers have received a lot of attention as of late. After the successes of male sexual enhancement products like Viagra, much research and funding has gone into the development of a female targeted counterpart. Here is how these female libido boosters can save your sex life:
1- They allow you to experience stronger orgasms! Many of the female sexual enhancers contain botanical extracts that rush blood to the vaginal area. This rush of blood engorges the clitoris and sensitizes the nerves allowing for higher levels of sensation and pleasure. Many women report that they experience stronger orgasms because of this increased sensory stimulation
2- No more painful or unpleasant sex due to vaginal dryness! Due to the increase in pleasure mentioned above, women experience higher levels of arousal. This heightened state of arousal, along with the rush of blood to the vagina, vastly improves the production of lubrication. Being able to get "wet" allows for pain free sex.
3- Self-confidence that leads to a greater desire for sex! The above mentioned points combine to give you the confidence and self assuredness you need to start looking forward to sex again. Female libido boosters give you the ability to experience strong and consistent orgasms. Your increased state of arousal increases your natural lubrication allowing you to enjoy sex to the fullest. You no longer have to stress over sex and will start looking forward it with great anticipation.
Female libido boosters eliminate two of the biggest contributors to low female sex drive. Many women with low interest in sex claim that they cannot climax. With natural libido boosters women are able to climax more often and with more intensity. The second complaint is painful sex due to vaginal dryness. This issue is also solved by female enhancers by allowing the body to lubricate more efficiently.
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Thursday, July 21, 2016

Horror Authors Take Note

2016 Horror Book Contest
All authors are welcome – newbies & experienced.
Are you ready for the chance to be an award-winning author or multi-award winning author?  
Yes!  Excellent!

All entrants receive the following:
  •  A 250-350 word review of your book, which you can use/post wherever you like simply by adding “Originally reviewed by the staff of Authors Talk About It for Book Award Contest”
Those earning 3-5 Stars in their review receive:
  • The above and…
  • Are included in the featured 2016 Horror Novel Contest reviews page on Authors Talk About It
Those earning 4-5 Stars in their review receive:
  • The above and…
  • Promotion across our combined social media of 40K+
  • Digital Badge for 4-5 Stars
**Those earning less than 3 Stars in their review:
  • Reviews are more of a critique with helpful feedback and are not posted in a featured post or on the reviews page nor are they promoted via our social media.

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Who/what can enter:
  • Authors 18 years of age or older
  • Published and unpublished books, manuscripts and ebooks are accepted
  • Books must fit into horror genre.  No violently graphic book covers. 
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Grand Prize – $997 value
  • A mini Author VIP Day with Rob and Janelle (virtually or in-person) (3 hour session instead of 6 hours)
  • Promotion across our combined social media of 40K+ throughout fall of 2017
  • Featured on homepage October 25, 2016 through November 25, 2016
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  • Audio promo on podcast 4x between October 25, 2016 and November 25, 2016
  • Announcement during winners showcase on podcast on October 25, 2016
  • Interview as Grand Prize Horror Novel Contest Winner 2016
  • Listed in featured post as ATAI Horror Novel Contest Grand Prize Winner 2016
  • Badge as ATAI Horror Novel Contest Grand Prize Winner 2016

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  • Promotion across our combined social media of 40K+ for 2 months
  • Featured post of Honorary Mentions on site
  • Badge as ATAI Book Award Contest Honorary Mention
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Entry fee is $25.00 

Submissions Deadline: September 30, 2016
Finalists announced: October 18, 2016
Winners announced: October 25, 2016
**Finalists and winners are notified via the email they entered with as well as in a featured blog post on ATAI and on a special podcast on those days.

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Books are assigned to Authors Talk About It reviewers and the review and area ratings and overall number of stars will be emailed to the author (or representative) within 4-6 weeks after submission. Ratings range from 2-5 stars.  Anything less than 3 stars is written as a critique with helpful comments as well as pointing out the positives of the book.  Though we do not give 1 star ratings, the reviews are honest and when necessary, are meant to offer constructive criticism.
Star ratings are based on the following areas: 
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  5. Grammar/Typos – well written or numerous errors
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The staff of Authors Talk About It will select five finalists.  They will then make a final decision on winners after comparing the ratings in the six main areas and the overall ratings.   

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Monday, July 18, 2016

Are You Ready To Leave Your Job?



Did you know that… Fifty percent of successful business owners plan to exit their companies before 2020? 

Yet millions of business owners have no plans for succession. For owners that have a plan, those strategies can easily fail due to inadequate transition tactics, poor implementation, and mismanaged processes. 

Randy M. Long, JD, CFP®, CExP™, created The BraveHeart Planning Process™ to ensure a successful business transition for you, the owner, and your family. The transition out of your business is likely the largest financial transaction of your life ---- generally 70-90 percent of your net worth. The sooner you start preparing, the better your chances to exit well. 

The BraveHeart Planning Process™ will help you create and execute your own roadmap for a successful business exit. When complete, your plan should provide for a transition when you want, to whom you want, for the amount you need for financial independence. And, it strengthens your family along the way. 

Randy has advised hundreds of business owners over a thirty-year career, involving the sale or transition of their businesses. He has also prepared and administered many estate plans for families who left their businesses to their children. He knows what works and what doesn’t. He understands business decisions that build families―and those that destroy them. This is planning at the nexus of business and family. 

Owning a business is not for the faint of heart. As you grow and ultimately transition your business, you should do so with a commitment to both live and leave a legacy that endures for generations. It’s time for you to get started! 
(Randy M. Long)

Sunday, July 17, 2016

The X & Y Show

The podcast like no other!!!

The sexy taboo stuff, that’s on everybody’s nasty mind. Juicy topics that includes the strawberry, chocolate, vanilla, and the NUTS! Can ya dig it! No topic is off limits or left unturned! Come listen to an array of topics originating from the numinous mind of your host, while being butt-naked and unperturbed. Nothing escapes X & Y Baby!

Friday, July 15, 2016

Colors And The Magic They Have On Our Lives


The clothes we wear the car we drive and the houses we live in all have a color and at sometime in our lives we were attracted to those colors. Ever put a shirt on in morning and been pleased with it only to find by the afternoon you change it for another shirt one that feels more appropriate to your mood. Color expresses our mood our character and our relationship to the world. There are positive and negative energies in all colors and the way we feel enhances those qualities.
Being aware of color magic can change your world, for example the normal non thinking thing to do, is when you are upset or a little withdrawn you will choose dark colors navy blues, blacks, dark greens etc. Those colors you chose just reflected your mood perfectly without a thought.
Now the next time you go to put on a new set of clothes check your feelings emotions and general well-being. If you find your feeling down then choose a color that will lift your mood rather than keep it in it's present state. Example: I've had a rotten night's sleep got work early I'm tired already, with a little more thought on how can I make this day better I choose a bright red shirt to give me some energy a set of long white trousers to uplift my mood detoxifying my spirit. Next I choose bright blue shoes to remind to look up! it's the color of the sky.
Within a business setting or going for that interview bright flamboyant colors, not so appropriate if you are feeling strong and confident go for navy blue or black with a splash of color. Choose a color with the energy you need help with. Lacking a little softness in your approach try a little pink. Striving to be noticed a little orange here and there will attract eye's looking your way. Not to over stated though.
The Color Wheel
Red is fiery and energetic and creates inner warmth, confidence, courage, energy, strength, determination, passion, sexual attraction and keeps us spontaneous! The color red stimulates cell growth also relates to stability and security. Red encourages us to have will power and to be ambitious.
Blue symbolizes trust, loyalty, confidence, intelligence, faith and truth. Blue is strongly associated with tranquility and calmness inspiration, confidence, sincerity and peace. Blue is the color of Wisdom, Communication, and Spirituality.
Light blue is associated with health, healing, tranquility, understanding, and softness. Dark blue represents knowledge, power, integrity, and seriousness.
Turquoise is the color of the Ocean and dolphin energy. It is pure, healing, calming, uplifting and creates joy and happiness also bringing communication through art and creative expression. Turquoise represents freedom and intelligence and can help us tap into Ancient wisdom, telepathic ability. As it is said to provide protection from negativity, turquoise can also help bring peace and higher energy to relationships.
Green has wonderful harmonizing energy, and so is healing and calming. It promotes growth, fertility, love and creativity, Green is a tranquil, peaceful color that is also patient.Green balances the nerves and body and brings us Mother Nature's healing vibrations.
Purple is associated with intuition, vision and mystery, as well as royalty. It is a spiritual color and wonderful used in Meditation. Purple helps give us inspiration, peace of mind and is healing and calming. Purple is wonderful for your imagination, inspiration and creative energy. It is a color of Wisdom and Inner Strength.
Magenta connects our spiritual life to our unconscious self and to the divine, promoting the union of instinct and intellect. Magenta is a color of love, tenderness and passion. It strengthens intuition, creativity, Artistic inspiration, imagination, psychic powers, and also increases dream activity.
Bronze & Brown, is used in color therapy and color healing art for grounding and helping people connect with Mother Nature. It helps give stability, strength, and comfort and represents reliability and sophistication. Brown also has balancing and nourishing energies.
Silver enhances intuitive energies and gives us inspiration. It is mystically considered to improve speech and is healing and cleansing. It also helps enhance the energies of gemstones. Silver is related to the energies of the moon, which is associated with feminine energy. Silver can also bring trustworthiness and romance.
Black is not a color and we see it as a shade containing not a trace of color. The energies of black are, Boldness, Power, elegance, sophistication, formality, seriousness and wealth. Black has depth and conceals and is said to be stylish, mysterious, slimming and sexy, hence the little black dress and smoky eye shadow worn by women on a night out on the town! Black also represents control and is a good technical color.
White is not a color. It reflects light and mixed with colors softens them. It has the energy of light. It symbolizes Cleanliness, purity, innocence, simplicity, freshness, peace, humility, truth and spirituality. White is said to be the shade of new beginnings.
Pink is the color of the heart and represents unconditional love, tenderness, caring, compassion, gentleness and romance. Feminine intuitive energy comes with the softness of pink. Promotes self-esteem as well as artistic, creative energies. Red energies are in pink mixed with the softer energy of white.
Orange is a fun color radiating warmth, happiness and creativity. It helps us feel devoted, determined optimistic, enthusiastic, and cheerful. Orange encourages spontaneity, vitality and confidence, is a sociable color, promoting lively conversation. Orange also helps us have independence and creates attraction and success.
Gold / Yellow is an Optimistic and positive color, that is rich and warm. Gold is linked to masculine energy and the power of the sun. It is associated with higher ideals, wisdom and enlightenment. It inspires knowledge, spirituality and a deep understanding of the self and the soul. It promotes compassion, love, and the sharing of knowledge. Gold has long been associated with royalty and is associated with abundance and prosperity and the powerful energy that brings light and life to all beings.
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Tuesday, July 12, 2016

An Amazing Book By An Amazing Man



We are all put on this earth for a reason, and it’s to be the best YOU! The Story of You is for the Doers of the Dreams who are ready to escape from the land of mediocrity once and for all. On this exciting journey, Mark Minard shares his own story of early heartache and bad decisions—and how those experiences left him trapped in anger, fear, and mediocrity. But his continued search for answers and solutions also led to his discovery that he was not trapped—he had a choice. The Story of You dives deep into Mark’s adventures into the unknown in an adventure about discovering and living out your big WHY! In it Mark shares his personal playbook of how he elevated his mindset with faith-building thoughts, and manifested his dreams to the next level and beyond. This is not a theoretical doctrine; rather, this book gives you real-life applications from within the trenches describing how Mark has formed his own principles of success:
  • It’s okay to be terrible on the way to being great.
  • At the root of indecision is fear. 
  • A little bit of insanity + incredible faith = great entrepreneurs and leaders
  • Your ”limitations” are your best weapons.
  • Failure is a necessary step on the way to success.
  • Change your mindset, and your circumstances will follow.
  • Knowledge + understanding + application = power
Are you ready to take your dreams, your leadership, and your life to the next level and beyond? It’s time to set sail into the uncharted waters of the unknown, and discover. . .The Story of You!

Saturday, July 9, 2016

I Will Teach You To Be Rich



At last, for a generation that's materially ambitious yet financially clueless comes I Will Teach You To Be Rich, Ramit Sethi's 6-week personal finance program for 20-to-35-year-olds. A completely practical approach delivered with a nonjudgmental style that makes readers want to do what Sethi says, it is based around the four pillars of personal finance— banking, saving, budgeting, and investing—and the wealth-building ideas of personal entrepreneurship.

Sethi covers how to save time by not wasting it managing money; the guns and cars myth of credit cards; how to negotiate like an Indian—the conversation begins with "no"; why "Budgeting Doesn't Have to Suck!"; how to get things rolling—for real—with only $20; what most people don't understand about taxes; how to get a CEO to take you out to lunch; how to avoid the Super Mario Brothers trap by making your savings work harder than you do; the difference between cheap and frugal; the hidden relationship between money and food. Not to mention his first key lesson: Getting started is more important than being the smartest person in the room.


Wednesday, July 6, 2016

Lucas Nord Listen For This Guy!




My Review:
A Grizzly Adam version of Adam Levine, Lucas Nord has a very similar sound to Adam and the band Maroon 5.   Lucas Nord in my opinion has the sound to make it big in the industry if he just gets around there right people.   The talent is there for sure. 

Okay your turn tell us what you think of Lucas Nord in the comments section.

Sunday, July 3, 2016

Kissing Tips You Must Know If You Want To Impress A Woman


Learning kissing tips is something everyone should do. The first kiss is what most women look at when trying to determine whether or not you are a good lover. If you cannot kiss, chances are you are lousy in bed, and this is unacceptable to women.
I have a lot of female friends and let me tell you, whenever they first kiss man the first thing they do is tell everyone they know how it was. One of the first questions asked to a woman after a date (sometimes the first question) is: "So, did you kiss?" If the answer is yes, it is almost always followed by "What it good?"
You may have taken my advice on how to attract, approach, and then seduce women, but unless you fully understand my kissing advice , you will have a hard time keeping any woman. That is if you don't know how to kiss already, of course. Knowing how most men think I am assuming that you believe you already know how to kiss girls properly. From what I've heard through my female friends, however, chances are you do not know everything.
Everything you do when kissing a girl, especially for the first time, will have her re-evaluating any pre-judgments she may have had about you. You could give the first impression that you are confident, sensual, and smart, but if you give her a bad kissing experience she will immediately associate a new set of beliefs to you.
Women want to be with a man who can make them feel as though they are the sexiest woman alive, and this cannot be accomplished if you cannot kiss. She will also think you don't give a damn because excellent kissing advice is everywhere and finding effective kissing tips is very easily found - if you look for it.
Learning how to kiss girls goes far deeper than applying a bunch of kissing tips on her, though. In order to blow any woman away with your lips you have got to know when and how to execute those kissing tips . The mood and timing play a major factor and if not carefully executed it won't matter whether you are a kissing master because she cannot fully enjoy it!
Men are so much different than women and when it comes to kissing, they are TOTALLY different. A man will enjoy any kiss a woman he is interested gives him, even if it's a bad kiss. I have slept with many girls who couldn't kiss worth a damn because we men are animals. Plus, most men, along with myself, believe they can turn almost any woman into the kisser or lover they desire.
Women, on the other hand, are far more picky. If they are not impressed or are repulsed by the way a man kisses her for the first time, chances are she will never get into a sexual relationship with them. Women want a man who knows what he's doing and believe they should never have to teach him about kissing. After all, in a woman's mind a bad kisser is a man who's not sensual - and sensuality, to a woman, cannot be taught.
Knowing what to do before the first kiss, or any kiss for that matter, can make even a bad kiss seem pleasurable. That said, a kiss is not just a physical action, it is an experience. An experience that depends on the process and procedures prior to the physical act.
Building Anticipation
One of my favorite kissing tips I have used over the years is building anticipation. If you are receiving positive signals from a girl and are almost 100% sure she would like you to kiss her, hold off. Anticipation will build tension and making her wait for that first kiss will get her hot juices flowing. Everything good in life is worth waiting for, and a first kiss is no exception.
There are so many things a man has to do before going in for a kiss and this article will give you some very valuable kissing advice that will blow her socks off. The art of kissing, especially when kissing a woman, has been studied and researched so much that we have a very good understanding of what separates a good kiss from a bad kiss.
Be Kissable
A man has got to be kissable if he wants any woman to crave his lips against hers. The appearance of your lips is crucial. Make sure they are moist, soft, silky, and smooth. Do you know how many men I have seen out on a date with dry, chapped, and cracked lips? What the hell are they thinking? I don't care how attractive you are, if you're lips are disgusting no woman will want to kiss you. So use lip balm before you go out with a woman. Lip balm works wonders and I cannot recommend its use enough. You can limit its use only for dates and while meeting women, but if you don't mind building somewhat of a dependence on the stuff, use it all the time!
Prevent Or Mask Bad Breath
So you've got nice lips already, do you? Okay, there are some of us who do, but there is something else you should always ask yourself: "How does my breath smell?" People with bad breath rarely know that they have it, so even if you brush your teeth a thousand times a day you should always bring breath mints when you are with a woman you want to kiss. Brushing your teeth does not eliminate halitosis (bad breath) because teeth are not the culprit that cause bad breath.
Bad breath can be caused by anything from your diet to genetics, and the easiest and most effective way to defeat it is by using breath mints. Also, drink a lot of water. Staying hydrated will prevent your mouth from getting dry, and a dry mouth smells a lot worse than a moist one. This kissing advice must be followed always because you could be doing everything else right, but if your breath smells, sayonara. You fail. Women are very sensitive to smells and bad breath will have them turning away and running out the door faster than a bad out of hell.
Be Sure She Is Ready To Be Kissed
Even if you have the nicest teeth and freshest smelling breath, you have to know for sure that she is ready to be kissed. I go into great detail on reading female body language and signals women send so I recommend you become familiar with them because nothing is as embarrassing as being turned away from a kiss. Women send signals all the time and it is really easy to know if they are kissable.
If you think a woman is sending signals that she can be kissed, make sure the mood and timing are right. Don't rush into a kiss, especially first kisses, even you're receiving positive vibes. Like I said earlier, building anticipation is very effective and picking the right moment will make the kiss that much more special. When is the right time? That is something you will have to figure out on your own. Every woman is different so making your own judgment is important and something no kissing coach can teach. We can set you up and help you execute, but it is ultimately up to you to decide if the time is right.
Move In For The Kiss
Once you think the time is right, make your approach and move in for the kiss. Always make sure the girl is paying attention when you move in because surprising her will freak her out. She wouldn't have time to enjoy the kiss because she isn't expecting it. This is the final few seconds of anticipation, when your eyes are locked and nothing is being said. She will get excited and enjoy the kiss a lot more than if a kiss is taken from her.
Your approach must be slow and smooth. Smile and take this chance while you are close to enjoy her smell. Don't go directly for the lips, take a detour and hover her face while gently skimming your lips along her cheeks and then slowly move toward her mouth. Pull back and look into her eyes again. While moving in be sure to close your eyes the moment before your lips touch. Wandering eyes while moving in closer will leave her thinking you are examining her imperfections and keeping your eyes open during a kiss will freak her out. There have been a few times when I caught a woman with her eyes open and let me tell you, there is nothing weirder. I'm sure that women find it even more bizarre.

Be Gentle
The first kiss must be gentle. You don't want to be aggressive and press your lips too hard on her. The key is to meet her lips, and for crying out loud, don't be one of those guys who forces his tongue down a woman's throat. A french kiss on your first attempt will make you seem over-eager and slimy. Women remember the first kiss and making it as gentle, sensual, and romantic as possible will make the kiss memorable.
After meeting her lips for a few seconds, pull away and look into her eyes some more. Notice if she is enjoying the kiss and if she doesn't move in herself within a couple of seconds (which happens most of the time), kiss her again. This time a little longer while remaining gentle and sensual.
Enjoy Her Lips And The Kiss
Give the woman you are kissing the impression that just kissing her is enjoyable enough. Don't start petting her inner thigh or her breasts during the first few kisses or she'll think you're just trying to get laid. Take time to enjoy the kiss and don't rush. Gently rub your lips against hers as though you are enjoying every last contour. Don't just lock your lips, you want to feel every bit of her lips. Move from upper lip to lower lip and vice versa. Do whatever you can that says: "I don't want to miss even a millimeter of your lips."
Relax And Breathe
Relax and make sure you are breathing. Breathing, though second nature, is very easily forgotten in many activities. Not that you'll end up suffocating if you're into a kiss too much, but it is very common for people to lose their breath while kissing and making silly sounds when their bodies involuntarily compensate for the lack of oxygen.
Touch Her While Kissing
One of the most effective kissing tips you will ever read has nothing to do with your lips. Touching a woman the right way is kissing advice you must not overlook. Men can be turned on by a simple kiss, but women need a lot more. Using your hands by touching and/or cupping her face will show that you are attracted to her and allow her to feel attractive. Gently touch the outer part of her arms or hold her hands. Run your hands through her hair. Just remember to keep it innocent and not to feel her up.
Don't Just Kiss Her Lips
After kissing her lips and determining that she is enjoying it, move on to other parts of the face. The side of her mouth, cheeks, temple, forehead, and anywhere else on her face . Women want to feel beautiful and if you gently kiss different parts of her face, she will feel as though you cannot get enough of her entire face. Don't overdo it though - you are not a dog.
Say Sweet Nothings
You can say sweet things to a woman before, during, and after a kiss. Tell her that you've had a crush on her for a while and were looking forward to kissing her. Comment on the softness of her lips and how pleasant she smells. Make her feel as though she is the most attractive woman you've ever kissed and I promise you she will open up even more and be comfortable in progressing into french kissing or even sex. Learning how to french kiss deserves its own kissing advice article so I won't get into it here. Just know that comfort level is important in getting the most out of a kissing session.
The kissing tips I've outlined above work brilliantly. I give kissing advice to a lot of men and never have any of them been disappointed. I know that these tips on how to kiss girls will help and hope that you enjoy ever last minute while your lips are touching hers.
Jesse Allen is the main contributor to the website [http://www.approachandseduce.com] and freelance writer. He has tried many seduction programs and provides free tips to seduce women on his site and through his official newsletter.


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